Dreamphobia! Do I have to dream this stuff?!

What has she gotten herself into this time?!....

Oh, sorry guys. How are you today? I sincerly hope you are all doing well or at least trying to cope. Just know that if you're around to complain...then you're doing better than you think. I've learned that peception is everything...

Anywho...of course I'm going to tell you about one of my dreams. Not because its life changing but because I rarely have contact with this person so it was a bit interesting to dream her up. (You know...like dialing someone up on the phone...only I wasn't trying to dream about her but oh well)Yeah so, I dreamed about my sister 'n law and although we are friendly towards each other we just simply don't have a close relationship. Besides she lives in another city so that doesn't help...

Anyway, so here goes...

The Dream- She was on the phone trying to reach my husband. However, he was asleep and she wanted me to wake him. I told her that I would not do that but would give him a message. She tried to be a bit aggressive and push me to give him the phone. I was firm. I didn't raise my voice or anything like that but I told her that I would not wake him and she backed down and became friendly.

The Dream shifts- It appeared that we were hanging out and going shopping and doing a lot of things together that we normaly do not do. We went out to eat and just spent a lot of time together.

The Dream shifts- She called my husband and did not get an answer on his phone. She then called him and left a message.(It was strange because it was almost as if she had wrote a letter to him as well...I don't know. You know how dreams are. But the letter and the message she left basically said the same thing)She said in the message: "__________ don't let that b*tch come between us. Just remember we have a relationship that she can't touch. Please don't let her come between us."

She continued to almost plead with him to not let me come between the two of them. Even though she was talking to my husband in the dream she used a different name. One I had never heard before but it was a nick name.

Now people you need to know that I usually dream very literal dreams. Most of the time they come out exactly as I dreamt it...but there are some dreams that are similar in form- meaning they won't come out exactly as you dreamed it but it will be extremly similar. For example; When I was younger and my brother was in high school, I dreamed he got into a fight with a guy over a girl. The next day...and I do mean the VERY NEXT DAY he got into a fight but according to my brother it had nothing to do with a girl. He bumped into a guy in the hallway and the guy got his panties in a bunch and wanted to flex his muscles...So you see my brother may have not fought over a girl but the fact remained that he still got into a fight...

...And...So it was with the dream about my sister 'n law. At first I interpreted the dream to be all about me when it had nothing to do with me at all! I later found out that she is friends with a guy whom she considers to be somewhat like a brother to her and a woman came into the picture...and well you can follow the dream to figure out what the situation is like...

So yeah people...I'm still dreaming...are you?
Oh, before I go...Thanks for reading and thanks for your input...

Here's what some of you said:

Phil- "fascinating you are clairyvoant"
My response- Umm... I don't know about that but I do think I have a precious gift.

Jane Opal- "Just one question: Do you believe that this is a God-given talent?"
My response- Yes.

Chanyn- "I'm not sure if I am a dreamer or not. I have situations that I can swear I have dreamt before, but don't remember. I think I should start a dream journal to write in when I wake up."
My response- Good idea! Writing my dreams down helped me...especially when I needed to go back and clarify something.

Well that's all for now folks.

Later days...





Email: Reluctantdreamer@yahoo.com

Thus, the dreamer was born...

Ok, so what if everyone thinks it's all baloney... I tell you it's real ya hear!
...Just having a little fun with you.

First things first. I am a dreamer. We all are. But some people are able to receive the type of dreams that help them throughout a lifetime. I am such a person. Way back to my childhood...since I can remember...I have always been a dreamer.

I remember spooking my friends and family by telling them certain things that had a habit of coming true within the next week or so. Wow...let's see I dreamed both my grandfather's and grandmother's death. I've dreamed of cheating boyfriends ( no lie)...I've dreamed about my future...other's futures, etc...

I know it sounds unreal. Most people who claim to know such things can be classified as certifiable freaks! Believe me, for a while I told no one because I had to protect my relationships with others and how they saw me. Even now there are others who have no idea about my...dreams.

I have also met others who dream. That has been the fun and exciting part. I thought I was alone but....I'm not. Still you have no idea what it's like to grow up not understanding what in the world was wrong with you. Now I feel as though I have a gift. I have embraced the art of dreaming and have come to know exactly what most of my dreams mean.

I consider myself to be the Reluctant Dreamer because for many years I fought it and even though it is apart of who I am and I have now accepted this gift...there are times when I dream something that makes me wish the dreaming would stop...such as murder or things that are unpleasant.

I wish to reach out to other fellow dreamers or individuals interested in dreams or the supernatural. Being in a dream state is so different from being alert and fully awake. That, I believe is why we are so receptive to our dreams and sometimes we wake up feeling like we were actually in the dream as though it were real.

I will share many of my past and present dreams with you as our blog friendship begins to grow.
Then you will know my beginning...which led to who I am today....stay tuned...

The Reluctant Dreamer

Email: reluctantdreamer@yahoo.com