Thursday, June 26, 2008

Dreamphobia! Do I have to dream this stuff?!

What has she gotten herself into this time?!....

Oh, sorry guys. How are you today? I sincerly hope you are all doing well or at least trying to cope. Just know that if you're around to complain...then you're doing better than you think. I've learned that peception is everything...

Anywho...of course I'm going to tell you about one of my dreams. Not because its life changing but because I rarely have contact with this person so it was a bit interesting to dream her up. (You know...like dialing someone up on the phone...only I wasn't trying to dream about her but oh well)Yeah so, I dreamed about my sister 'n law and although we are friendly towards each other we just simply don't have a close relationship. Besides she lives in another city so that doesn't help...

Anyway, so here goes...

The Dream- She was on the phone trying to reach my husband. However, he was asleep and she wanted me to wake him. I told her that I would not do that but would give him a message. She tried to be a bit aggressive and push me to give him the phone. I was firm. I didn't raise my voice or anything like that but I told her that I would not wake him and she backed down and became friendly.

The Dream shifts- It appeared that we were hanging out and going shopping and doing a lot of things together that we normaly do not do. We went out to eat and just spent a lot of time together.

The Dream shifts- She called my husband and did not get an answer on his phone. She then called him and left a message.(It was strange because it was almost as if she had wrote a letter to him as well...I don't know. You know how dreams are. But the letter and the message she left basically said the same thing)She said in the message: "__________ don't let that b*tch come between us. Just remember we have a relationship that she can't touch. Please don't let her come between us."

She continued to almost plead with him to not let me come between the two of them. Even though she was talking to my husband in the dream she used a different name. One I had never heard before but it was a nick name.

Now people you need to know that I usually dream very literal dreams. Most of the time they come out exactly as I dreamt it...but there are some dreams that are similar in form- meaning they won't come out exactly as you dreamed it but it will be extremly similar. For example; When I was younger and my brother was in high school, I dreamed he got into a fight with a guy over a girl. The next day...and I do mean the VERY NEXT DAY he got into a fight but according to my brother it had nothing to do with a girl. He bumped into a guy in the hallway and the guy got his panties in a bunch and wanted to flex his muscles...So you see my brother may have not fought over a girl but the fact remained that he still got into a fight...

...And...So it was with the dream about my sister 'n law. At first I interpreted the dream to be all about me when it had nothing to do with me at all! I later found out that she is friends with a guy whom she considers to be somewhat like a brother to her and a woman came into the picture...and well you can follow the dream to figure out what the situation is like...

So yeah people...I'm still dreaming...are you?
Oh, before I go...Thanks for reading and thanks for your input...

Here's what some of you said:

Phil- "fascinating you are clairyvoant"
My response- Umm... I don't know about that but I do think I have a precious gift.

Jane Opal- "Just one question: Do you believe that this is a God-given talent?"
My response- Yes.

Chanyn- "I'm not sure if I am a dreamer or not. I have situations that I can swear I have dreamt before, but don't remember. I think I should start a dream journal to write in when I wake up."
My response- Good idea! Writing my dreams down helped me...especially when I needed to go back and clarify something.

Well that's all for now folks.

Later days...





Email: Reluctantdreamer@yahoo.com

20 comments:

Emily said...

Hey there! Your blog is fascinating! I personally don't remember the majority of my dreams, but I find it interesting that I stumbled across your blog. Last night I had a particularly haunting dream and I actually remember most of the details from it, which is very unusual for me. Hopefully this does not mean that my dream will come true (so to speak), as the dream was a rather unpleasant one. Anyway, keep up the posting!

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maceno! said...

I had something similar happen to me.

JAMJARSUPERSTAR said...

I remember some of my dreams but others are completely hazy and incomprehensible!
Thanks a lot for visiting my site - I enjoyed reading yours too!
Ciao

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Anonymous said...

I know you were glad when you realized it was someone else instead of you that your in law had the problem with

Ash said...

Whoa, that's amazing~ I have had dreams like that myself where they happen the in the next few days or a week later. =P Only a few though, but alot of my dreams are crazy and vivid. I suppose we're lucky to remember our dreams - some people really can't seem to remember them! Btw, thanks for visiting my site - I like yours too =)

Jessica Shope said...

Interesting stuff. lol.

That happens to me on occassion, too.

JB said...

Hi there Dreamer. Really interesting stuff, really. I've always thought there was something to it. Anyway, you dropped by my site, and I thank you, and said you were thinking about a cute fence outside or some lighting so you would keep an eye out for any tips. That's great. But, if you could tell me, when you think you're ready to do it, I'll be more than happy to walk you through every step of the way. That's the point of the site. I won't ever have links to other sites that will just give generic methods of doing things. I'l actually walk you through your personal situation, patiently and clearly stated. Hopefully someday I'll get really busy with it and people could click on past jobs I have helped people with, but knowing that if they have any questions, I will personally help them through it. I've been blessed with talents like you. Well, different ones, but you understand. Anyway, at 50 and winding down on the physical work myself, the best part of me, my wife, and I are trying to work on here and help people at the same time. We will, when we can, set up some sort of forum to make it easier for people to ask questions on. In the mean time, I have to go with comments on the blog, but will post proceedures asked.

Blessings,
Smile with you Heart,
Joe

The Cool Commentator said...

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keep up the good work!!

joie de vivre said...

hmm dreamer....!
dreams are mixture of wat we do..we hav..we want..we feel..things wich we r scared...we love..we forget..
and sum weirdness + creativity.
dats wat i feel
so stay kool!
n keep posting

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Anonymous said...

I know what scientist think of dreams but im with you. Some things cannot be explained. i never had this experience but it dont mean it dont happen to you.

ArmieBrat96 said...

wow this really made me think about the dreams i have..most of my dreams end up becoming true in reality...like i saw a boardd at my job with the specials for the week in a dream....and a few months later i got hired at a job and saw the same board.....is that wierd...

Aneesh said...

Hey, good one, keep posting :)

decobooth said...

Hey Dreamer, thanks for commenting on my blog. I know it's hard to wrap your brain around going green, but fact is, most people that, say for instance, won't litter, well, that's green! Or just being responsible. And that's about all it really is I'm finding out. As I began my blog, I don't hug trees (aforementioned lip splinters), but I do feel a certain responsibility to this planet, and even more so with so many who just flat out don't care.

Now about your blog--great concept! I love your comment about being an old soul in a young body--I feel right the opposite! I'm a young soul in an old body (ok, some might argue about 48 being old--if you're 60!). I feel I have enjoyed my life so much, but in many ways didn't use my time wisely. I hope to make up for that now.

I haven't had this dream in a few years now, but I've had a recurring dream since I was 5. I guess the last time I had it was two or three years ago. How is it that a person can have a recurring dream? Do you think that's supposed to say something about us or the way we think (now THERES a scary thought)? I don't know that I give into dreams really meaning something, but on the other hand, God spoke to alot of biblicals in their dreams, so who knows? Mine being recurring and all, maybe He thought I just wasn't listening! <:/ And so it goes...
Leslie
decobooth
www.apartmental.blogspot.com

Polly's Race to Sanity- Are We There Yet? said...

hey dreamer thanks for stopping by and leavind your comments come back again
as far as your dreams thats quite interesting as far as them coming true i hear ya i know the feeling it is a gift that you must nurture and protect

Polly's Race to Sanity- Are We There Yet? said...

hey dreamer thanks for stopping by and leavind your comments come back again
as far as your dreams thats quite interesting as far as them coming true i hear ya i know the feeling it is a gift that you must nurture and protect

The Cool Commentator said...

Hey there! Hope you are well and still enjoying blogging!! I have been away from my blog for almost a week now but I am back!

I have just written Chapter 3 - Part 1 and got it up on the blog, so come over and catch up with Jack and Stephanie.

I will stop by and read your recent posts when i get the chance! :) Look forward to hearing what you think of the next installment!!!

Anonymous said...

Great post! Most people take dream messages for granted. It's those people like you who take the time to listen that can learn from their dreams!

*Christina